所有文字，为了那些忘却的纪念。

我没有想过阿德会离开得比我早,所以,事实难料的.周五帮他准备了一个Farewell Party,我是花了一些时间,还花了一点脑筋在他的礼物上,他很开心很满意,我也很开心,他说我一定会是他最棒的一个秘书.他也是我最好的一个老板啦~~

 

海鲜酒楼的价格好贵好贵...不过很开心的~然后又是ZAPATAS,我们的根据地一样,呵呵~然后很开心,跟D在楼上吹吹风,聊聊天.我的老板都快不是我的老板了,都是朋友了,大家都没大没小的开玩笑,我觉得好快乐啊~其实跟他们在一起工作的这一年的时间,真的,很安全地被保护着~~要谢谢我的老板的~

 

我觉得自己要发胖了...因为真是吃得太好了...

 

下个礼拜要开始好好学习了!阿德虽然离开了,可是工作还是一样的~~希望可以多点时间看书,学习!

 

恩!!

 

加油加油!!

 一般周六都不会很早起床,破天荒的为了我们的大小姐Tina,一早被她SMS再加Morning Call的叫起来,陪她去过了一个非常棒的早上!今天是Tina在中国Baptism的日子.地点是在衡山路上的一个礼拜堂,专门是给外籍人提供的礼拜的一个教堂,地方不大,却感觉很温馨,很漂亮.有两个Brother背着GITAR领大家一起唱赞美歌.我第一次唱英文的赞美歌,很有乡村民谣的味道,可以随着歌声轻轻摇摆,很快乐,很温暖,也觉得充满了爱的味道,我突然觉得很快乐,一边唱,一边就觉得很快乐.

 

Baptism耗的时间很短,不过受洗的人却不少.Simon这个皮大王加谗猫饿死了,到对面叫了PIZZA,还在外面的花园晒了会太阳.今天早上的天气真是好的没话说.洗礼结束以后我们就琢磨着午餐.我跟Simon去了超市买来了茶叶蛋,三明治,饮料还有馄饨.然后回到教堂的花园,找了个地方就做下来享受阳光跟午餐了.Tina and Simon开始回忆他们的大学时光,因为那个地方象极了校园,很美丽.真是开心.吃完以后还跟Simon一起爬树,他说那棵树是他的秘密基地,可以在那里看书,是个好地方.他真是很可爱的.

 

结束了午餐,坐公车回家.这是S第2也不知道第3次在中国乘车,他真是...一刻不清闲~下车后吃了雪糕,然后一路回家.一个快乐的早晨就这样过掉了.下午的时候UU就来我家里玩了.在她来之前我是彻底打扫了一下,还洗了不少衣服,哈哈~我是个好主妇,以后一定是个好老婆,没有找到老婆的好男人快来找我吧!呵呵~~下午不能放过这样的好天气,跟她去公园转了一圈,然后实在想念吴江路的鸡翅膀,就疯狂找人一起去,然后就找到了绿心~然后吃了鸡翅膀加上牛魔王,我是很满足了啦!!哈哈~摇摇晃晃到广场,就一起等公车回家啦!很快乐的一个下午还晚上!

 

对了,大清早在Tina的房间Simon还发疯了,一直吹外面人家外地人背着卖的葫芦笛子,还把自己和矿泉水瓶子当成是蛇,一边吹一边疯狂的东跳西跳,真是精力特旺盛了,我一大早起来没睡醒真是看的一楞一楞的呀~~

 

充实的一个周六,加上周五的晚上也是很快乐的在Bulldog,觉得已经很快乐了.感谢主. :-)  完全完全不是一个刚失恋的状态,完全完全的,是一个真实的自己.

 

独立,有点拽,快乐,爱笑,很喜欢.

 

下周一要去踢足球了!加油!!!!VVVVVVVVV!!

Dobby礼拜四的时候跟他的两个Mark去HK看橄榄球比赛了~我一个人本来以为会蛮无聊的,不过真的还好啦~做了一个晚上的YOGA,累是累啊...第二天因为Ibby的BF来看她,所以要陪Simon,让他Occupied,然后不要想那么多,不过为了陪他...可是到4点还在外面兰州拉面.还认识了Tina的几个朋友,其中一个Black Guy我觉得还不错啦~挺开心的这几天~下个礼拜一D就回来了,不知道会带什么礼物给我呀~~?

 

这几天Simon心情应该不怎么样,昨天晚上又看到Tina在跟她的黑人男友吵架,觉得自己availiable还是不错的,认识很多朋友啦~谈的来可以一起出去啦~发发消息,一起吃饭,跟朋友在一起真是开心~不知道Joanna这次去北京怎么样,在Tina&Simon回英国之前,打算跟他们一起去一次北京的~因为要去长城,呵呵!!

 

他们还有3个月就要回去了...会想他们呢~~

 

每个礼拜一三五下午在上政治英语和高数,我觉得做学生的感觉也很好的,那种很土的课桌黑板还有教室,老师也还算负责的,学生们也是比较认真的,看到很多人都在进修,跟J一起感叹了一下...竞争激烈啊~~

 

阿德可能下下周就要走了,D的话,应该是四月底吧~~以后我的老板们都走了,就没有人罩我了,所以在努力找新工作,希望可以跟他们一样,去一样新的地方开始新的事业!!

 

流水账报报,就此完毕吧!! 

工作不开心怎么办?感情不顺利怎么办?好好犒劳自己.其实要快乐,放松一点也不会很难.

 

不开心.有时候很不开心.不用人陪.一个人去CURRY HOUSE吃顿另自己满意的晚饭,去B+AB买好看的衣服,晚上在外面洗个头只因为自己懒得洗,回家看看片子喝点小酒洗澡然后睡觉.用新的粉粉的枕头,周末弄个小约会.我觉得自己真是宠爱自己呀~~

 

:-)

 

有什么事情是大不了的呢?想破头皮我也是想不出来~~

 

放松.豁达.偶尔悲观无妨.只要想开点.我也常对自己说想开点.快乐才是最重要的.不是吗?

 

谁会在乎我快乐不快乐呢?很多人,可是也没多少.但最起码的,自己要在乎自己的感觉.

 

专家说,女人每天喝点红酒美容养颜.从明天开始,决定实施!

 

近日心得.供分享. 

 

 

从UU那里坑了张很好看的图片,呵呵,放BLOG上来了~~

 

今天是元宵节,她...大概没有汤圆吃了...

 

我等一下要去跟刚从日本回来的朋友一起吃饭,也不能在家里吃饭,爸妈罗嗦了一堆,不过...我也不是故意的~

 

现在很难得写一次BLOG~每天工作,尤其是这个礼拜,真的是很忙碌呢,我老板老是拖我到8点,哇.....累死我了,要不是周末到了能休息了,我觉得自己又要生病了~~~忙什么以后再说吧,我要准备准备,等一下出门~~

 

过年了,什么不开心的事情全部都给扔了,开开心心地重新振作吧!!

 

很热闹呢!!搞得我昨天其实想很早睡觉的却睡也睡不着~

 

总之,我祝大家新年快乐,身体健康,身体好重要啊!!来年别忘记多锻炼身体啊!!学我们U,多游泳,多锻炼!!

 

还有么,女孩子越来越漂亮,男孩子越来越懂事....呵呵....大家都努力工作,早日发财,发大财!!

 

努力工作啊!!!!!!!!!!!!! 加油加油,嘿嘿~~

突然觉得压力很大，每天很忙很忙，很累很累，有很多很多人追在后面要这个要那个，有很多人盯在后面要这样要那样，我很恨很恨,很气很气，很不爽很不爽，然后就发飚了。

 

今天过掉终于可以放假了，8点30多分下的班，整个行政楼层就只剩下自己一个的感觉不是很好，不过一个人工作的感觉却还不错。今天过掉终于可以放假了，我终于可以休息了。很多很多事情，如果再不休息我就要崩溃了。还好，祈祷还是有用的，在我崩溃之前被解放了。我想，终于可以休息了，真的太好太好太好太好太好了。

 

好了，发泄好了，V，好好过日子，给U做个好榜样。恩~~

 

看会电视就洗澡睡觉。

 

我要赚钱养父母跟自己。我是个大人了。我说LET‘S MAKE THINGS BETTER~

 

V，亲亲~

很长时间没有过来了,很长很长了是吧~哈哈,因为自己搬到新窝以后没什么机会上网,然后在单位里又比较忙,不大会有时间写什么BLOG~虽然每个周末都有回家,但是...好像周末还是有很多事情要做的,所以...总的来说可能是比较繁忙的生活吧~

 

新窝有很多人来过了,IBBY,ATA,EMILY,ZIFU,KAKA,还有J的好朋友SAM,文==~我跟J两个人其实每天在窝的时间也不是非常多,我下班比较晚,有时候吃好饭才回去,她有时候也会在外面吃饭...以后我们会尝试下班后自己在家里烧饭的,但是现在暂时还不行~~回家后我们会看书，看DVD,还会跟着DVD锻炼锻炼身体,她每天晚上会出去跑步,我么...也要打算一下为夏天的到来减肥啦!

 

我们的家里有红酒,有酒杯,可是开瓶器却是我从单位里借来的,我们的窝里还有很多方便面,有很多纸巾,很多女孩子用的东西~哈哈,不大的地方,但很能被太阳晒到~

 

对了,离酒店10分钟的路程还是没有让我能准时上班,经常迟到...搞得好像每天930上班一样,其实我是900上班的~~~哎...下个礼拜一我老板让他的大秘书给我morning call了要...很晕啊....就为了让我能准时去开早会...可怜的V~

 

大秘书要回老家过年了,她把MSN名字改成了:烂摊子和2个烦人丢给VIVI,回家过年咯!超级受不了她...那么大的人了...还这样喜欢刺激人...真是~~2个烦人加上我本来就有的2个烦人...她放假的时候我大概要崩溃了...4个老板要服侍一刚...做我们阿德的保姆我已经够呛了...希望主能保佑我平安度过这个阶段,在工作上能够得到提高提高再提高,然后就可以到别的公司里去过大秘书啦!!哈哈,小VIVI做大秘书,耶!

 

哎呀,在新窝有在大学里的感觉,我们两个一起看看书,读读书,吃吃东西,也会出去走走,那个小区又是很漂亮的小区,很安静又很整洁,所以,日子过的还不错~!!

 

对了,我的生日也过的很开心的!1/26,黎云阁,复兴中路470号.还有饼房老大亲手为我做的2个蛋糕,一个是巧克力的,另外一个是老板送的CHEESE CAKE~不肥也难啊...

 

就这样了就这样了~~亲们,爱你们,亲爱的U,想你也~

 

下次再涂.

要努力生活

用心去爱人

更加爱主

坚持看圣经

在新的窝好好开始新的生活

做有福的人被祝福

信心满满的迎接2007

恩!

要加油

要勇敢

要认真努力奋斗!!!

活出神的样子

活出生命的意义

努力生活吧

我们,大家,亲爱的,亲

Cheer Up!!

一秒钟,跨越一年.

 

对于我这个不大用心记事情的人来说，回忆是比较困难的一件事情~我常常不记得别人对我的好,也常常不记得别人对我的不好.不过还好，我常常记得自己犯的错,还好,不是常常犯同样的错误,尤其是工作了以后.

 

06年好多大事情啊~毕业,实习,找工作,转正,加工资~遇到的德国老板,遇到的英国老板,遇到的英国实习生,遇到的香港实习生,遇到了很多新鲜的人,然后成了我整天都要面对的人.遇到了很多困难,很多挫折,都走过去了.VV应该奖励一下自己在06年的成绩,不管怎样,快乐多余难过的总是快乐.

 

也有很多没来得及做的,都会一点点在07把他们完成.

 

好象没有很多要说的.

 

希望健康快乐.做个有福的人.

 

爱我的人们继续好好爱我.然后,就已经很幸福了.

 

新年快乐.大家.还有我.

 

V, 继续加油!

I love you，我爱你，
You are perfect，你太完美了。
所以，还是改变一下吧......

 

I love you，你很完美，
I love you，现在改变了，
but，however，爱人终会出现，生活从此改变

 

The drama "I love You" yeasterday I saw with Joanna is very sarcastic but also real life.Men and Women in the drama no mask but directly words.Some games in the love and some matters in the marriage.

 

And there are 4 very very good and talented player in the drama.Very fantastic performance.Also the piano player and the violin player.

 

Anyway it's worthy to see and we should believe we will find our true lover one day.

 

Father,bless me and all of your children.

 

A men.

很害怕,觉得就要失去我最心爱的人了.他不愿意再爱我了,他开始怀疑我们的爱情.太可怕了.从来没有那么害怕过,一直哭,哭了整整一夜,哭到头很疼很疼,可是一想起他,就停不下来.哭到喉咙嘶哑.头很疼,一直疼一直疼...不知不觉中睡去了~~

 

疼,真疼,我该怎么抓回我的爱人,他即将离开我.他的疑虑,他的犹豫都是要离开我的征兆.我不能让他离开我.我不能离开他,不能离开他了.

 

我爱他.我那么爱他.神啊,父啊,我恳请你帮助我,恳请你不要让你的孩子再悲伤,她已经不行了...父啊,求你了,把他送回到我的身边,让我们相爱到永远.

 

我那么爱他.

 

请你.保守我们.在一起.

 

阿门.

 

 

 

 

为了圣诞,连续工作了一个礼拜以后,终于等到了我的长假.昨天11点半左右才下班,不过心情都还不错.很漂亮,很多圣诞的装饰,让我觉得气氛很浓,很暖.我的老板们要跟我一起放假的,所以昨天除了互相祝福,还不忘记说明年再见,哈哈~~阿德喜欢跟我绕几句德语,我觉得好亲切呀!

 

昨天最后的奖品被客人都领光了.电视机,摄象机,DVD,自行车...好多好多,都满载而归,还有开心的小朋友.昨天还看到老板的老板邀请来的朋友MARK,已经见过很多次面了,很亲切了.

 

圣诞节收到了很多礼物.三张贺卡,都是我老板送的,还有魔术帽子,很Q的礼物,一个很赞的手机,还有小熊装饰的手链,一副耳环,还有很多祝福.很快乐啊~

 

还有一件很神奇的事情.因为很忙,没有时间去看圣经,也没有做很多的祷告,好象就离父越来越远了.可是昨天在去上班的途中,一路都有座位坐,然后在这个神圣的日子里,很多跟父有关的话都跳出来,好象他要把我拉到他身边.本来有些沮丧,有些灰心,后来就越来越觉得被爱了.之后就收到两条姐妹发来的消息.很开心呢~虽然没能去教堂,没能去唱赞美歌,去听别人祝福,没能跟大家一起感受这个神圣的日子,可是脑子里却已经映出了那些圣诞树,窗户上的花环,牧师的祝福和赞美.人们虔诚的微笑和祷告.还有他们祷告时可能流下的感动的眼泪.

 

阿德这次要回德国去渡假了.可爱的老板Gute Reise.

 

英国老板好象是去哈尔宾玩雪.也祝他开心.We are friends.

 

UU,亲爱的,祝你开心,早点回来!亲亲~!Alles Gute.

 

 

 

> This week I need to work for 7 days,so it's a hard week cos xmas coming but also excited I think.Very strong xmas eviroment and we will have lots of party but also meeting for prepatration next year.

 

> 3 important meeting this week and one xmas party.

 

> After this week I can take 8 days vacation.Yes like Dobby said my boss take care of me.So that's why I said he is a good and lovely boss la~ hehe~~we will take vocation almost same time and at that time we can left my ugly boss in hotel alone.That's good.

 

> Next month Simon will transfer to our department.A very hanson English man la~hehe~that's great.Maybe we can have more fun in F&B.

 

> Life is busy but I entertament myself la~ I bought a book "if I don't need go to work".Very funny book.make my working more sweet.

 

> I intend to go to hot spring and see a drama during my holiday now.Of course one day lazy for sleeping.haha~~

 

> End.

 

> 昨天临回家时我在办公室门口贴了张圣诞老人的可爱图图~~哈哈~

 

> 我今天早上想给阿德一个SUPERISE,打了张很可爱的SANTA CLAUS的图片,然后写上他的名字跟TITLE贴在他门口,没想到进行中的时候他正面过来...哎呀,被看到了~~不过他乐极了,哈哈,狂笑~~老板好可爱呀~~

> 每天事情没有做好我就回家,然后心里惦记着明天不要忘记做什么什么的...哎...

> 阿德希望我23/24号能上班,因为圣诞会超级忙,所以让我25/26休息,也就是说我可以从25号开始放假到1号!!!哎呀,那么长时间,我该做什么呀!!!哎呀哎呀!!

> 明天就是我们抽名字,看跟谁交换礼物的日子了~~这是我第一次参加这样子的聚会,east meets west xmas party,好象还是我们部门一年一度的节目来~~有趣有趣~~

> 过节了,我身边节日气氛真的挺浓的,大家也都很忙的,好好玩,不过有时候还是会有点小挫折,不过跟开心比起来,一下下就忘记了

> 我网上订了本书还没到手,不过超级可爱的,叫可不可以不上班,我同事说里面那个小拧很象我的...

> 这里JOANNA SINA BLOG上的留言,就作为我的一篇博吧~~哈~

> 安.

 

道理我都懂的呀...可是,偏偏就是从一个旋涡转到了另外一个,还更加深的...我还真是糊涂...不该钻的角全去钻了...

 

好吧,我说我做我想做的事情就没错了,其他的我也管不了那么多了.好吧,UU,你好好在那里忙.好吧,希望ATA旅游顺利...噶冷的天跑出去干嘛真是...好吧,我也去睡觉了...

 

有些事情还是想不大通...

 

对了,我想起来今天老板一件很可爱的事情.他今天流鼻涕,很重的感冒了,原因比较可爱...因为空调遥控器上都是中文,他看不懂,礼拜天的时候开了冷气,把自己冷死了...今天叫我去帮他调空调,叫我开到30度,热的话他就开窗...我想起来他上礼拜还跑我这里说我象把自己关在烤箱里,这下他该知道烤箱总比冰箱好了~~哈哈~~看到一会鼻涕一会喷嚏的真好笑,还怕过给我~~阿德啊阿德,大家都觉得你是个可爱又麻烦的老板呢~~

 

好了,我要转到床上去了,继续我的HEAVEN EYES,然后睡觉~~

 

安.

 

我实在是太无聊了,没人陪,没人陪啊...等一下决定去看昨天看了一大半的小说Heaven Eyes,还算对我胃口的书,希望这个礼拜把它看掉,各么还算有点成就感,算做了件事情.

 

我们的亮灯仪式热热闹闹的结束了,跟一帮子从福利院出来的小朋友一起吃饭,看他们一个个都还很可爱的样子,老师说他们选了身体健康并且长相比较漂亮的出来,所以我没觉得什么,其实他们里面可怜孩子比较多的~~可以理解...不过那个福利院也真是够大的...大的我觉得...是个很有钱的机构啊...老师也都挺小年轻的,比我也大不了多少~

 

哎呀,都12月了,还真到12月了,下个月我可以过生日了,哈哈~~每次等生日的时候,我觉得一年一年其实过的还是挺慢的,真的到了我生日了...就又觉得...怎么老那么快...人还真是难搞~~

 

哎呀...我发现很多学校里面的坏习惯都没有改掉.天气越来越冷,我也真是几乎每天都迟到...幸好跟保安叔叔们搞好了关系...还知道套点近乎,否则...HR那里就说不过去了,我的老板倒是不会管我的,只要他需要我的时候我出现就好~~

 

我最近做了什么?我其实很多事情做的.不过主要是在做圣诞节的准备.因为这个是酒店12月份的重点.而且年末了嘛,总归有很多事情要总结咯什么的,还有很多会要开,习惯了习惯了...哎,其实吧,习惯还真不知道是个好事还是不好呢...

 

最近吧...心情真是忽东忽西,说晴天大太阳吧就要打雷下雨收衣服的了....情绪不稳定,月初了,算算好象也是差不多了...

 

ATA同学回来又跑了,应该不久会再回来的....反正这次她赖这时间长,不担心没机会闹腾.又是圣诞又是过年再加上我又要生日,我怎么就觉得接下来高兴的事情会接踵而来啊...这个心态还是很不错的,希望不要明天上班上着上着就一点过节的意思都没有了.

 

冲MAX家!ZIFU带路!!

 

哎呀....我这会在胡诌什么呢.........我真是语无伦次了.......哎....没有很多很多爱就给我很多很多钱,我需要钱,我需要很多很多钱.....HELP...HELP....HELP.....

 

这个天气呀也真是太冷了....我真是不想多打字了....

 

走了走了,改天再胡诌几句.

 

安.

12星座等级最终划分
一等星座
1天蝎座
  深谋远虑，深藏不露，城府极深，有魄力，有野心，勇敢，意志力超强，隐忍执着，洞察力极强，爆发力强，有12星座独一无二的第六感，是成大事者的首选，实数12星座之冠！
代表性大神：印度主神创造神大梵天[印度教生日11月9日] 冥王哈迪斯   

2摩羯座
吃苦耐劳，大器晚成，有野心，忍辱负重，坚韧不拔，意志顽强，大智若愚，是成大事者另一选择，综合实力略仅次于天蝎座的优等星座！
代表性大神：基督教主神耶和华[基督教生日 12月25日]   

3水瓶座
思维怪异，非常人能及，异常冷静，行为古怪独特，捉摸不定。意志也比较顽强，是成大事者第三选择，一个极其有魅力的外星人星座。
代表性大神：中国道教的玉皇大帝[生日阴历正月初九]


二等星座 
4狮子座
有领导才能，有魄力，敢作敢当，做男人很好，缺点是骄傲自大，听不进好言相劝，是表面的王者  
代表性大神：海神波塞东   

5天秤座
优雅，有风度，仪表堂堂，人缘极好，朋友众多，是12星座中最吃的开的星座。不过此星座一般贪图享受
代表性大神：太阳神阿波罗   

6金牛座
稳重、踏实，有艺术细胞，为人较诚实，属实干家，只要踏踏实实也能有一翻成就，不过此星座多为守财奴很吝啬，一生为金钱奔波劳碌
代表性大神：佛教主神释珈摩尼[生日阴历四月初八] 希腊主神宙斯

7白羊座
性格豪爽，光明磊落，勇敢，忠贞，极具阳刚，缺点是做事易冲动，没脑子，天真，好斗，女的稍微好点
代表性大神：伊斯兰教主神真主安拉[生日4月20日] 战神阿瑞斯   

8巨蟹座
此星座适合照顾人，细心体贴，是慈父贤母，但不适合做大事，毅力不强，接近三等星座   


三等星座
9射手座
性格活泼开朗堪称12星星之最，朋友众多，喜欢自由自在不受拘束的生活，不过此星星没啥耐心，意志力很差，往往做事半途而废。又花心，不踏实   

10处女座
一生都在追求完美，但没发现最不完美的却是自己。经不起挫折，很容易一撅不振，龟毛之王，神经质，斤斤计较，洁癖，不合群。比较令人讨厌的星座

11双鱼座
12星座中最脆弱的星座，没主见，任人摆布，意志力超差，容易堕落，没出息，同时此星星犯罪率也是12星座之首！幸亏有天蝎座罩她，不然很难想象如何立足

12双子座
此星座好象就口才好了一点，其实也只是哗众取宠而已，而且说多错多，做事三心两意，喜新厌旧，最无定力，极易受诱惑，毅力超差，受刺激极易失常发疯，完全游戏人生，综合实力和双鱼座是难兄难弟为12星座最差！

 

P.S:不管怎么样,我还是很喜欢自己的星座的,一个理性冷静的星座,外表柔和,内心坚强.耶!!

12星座等级最终划分
一等星座
1天蝎座
  深谋远虑，深藏不露，城府极深，有魄力，有野心，勇敢，意志力超强，隐忍执着，洞察力极强，爆发力强，有12星座独一无二的第六感，是成大事者的首选，实数12星座之冠！
代表性大神：印度主神创造神大梵天[印度教生日11月9日] 冥王哈迪斯   

2摩羯座
吃苦耐劳，大器晚成，有野心，忍辱负重，坚韧不拔，意志顽强，大智若愚，是成大事者另一选择，综合实力略仅次于天蝎座的优等星座！
代表性大神：基督教主神耶和华[基督教生日 12月25日]   

3水瓶座
思维怪异，非常人能及，异常冷静，行为古怪独特，捉摸不定。意志也比较顽强，是成大事者第三选择，一个极其有魅力的外星人星座。
代表性大神：中国道教的玉皇大帝[生日阴历正月初九]


二等星座 
4狮子座
有领导才能，有魄力，敢作敢当，做男人很好，缺点是骄傲自大，听不进好言相劝，是表面的王者  
代表性大神：海神波塞东   

5天秤座
优雅，有风度，仪表堂堂，人缘极好，朋友众多，是12星座中最吃的开的星座。不过此星座一般贪图享受
代表性大神：太阳神阿波罗   

6金牛座
稳重、踏实，有艺术细胞，为人较诚实，属实干家，只要踏踏实实也能有一翻成就，不过此星座多为守财奴很吝啬，一生为金钱奔波劳碌
代表性大神：佛教主神释珈摩尼[生日阴历四月初八] 希腊主神宙斯

7白羊座
性格豪爽，光明磊落，勇敢，忠贞，极具阳刚，缺点是做事易冲动，没脑子，天真，好斗，女的稍微好点
代表性大神：伊斯兰教主神真主安拉[生日4月20日] 战神阿瑞斯   

8巨蟹座
此星座适合照顾人，细心体贴，是慈父贤母，但不适合做大事，毅力不强，接近三等星座   


三等星座
9射手座
性格活泼开朗堪称12星星之最，朋友众多，喜欢自由自在不受拘束的生活，不过此星星没啥耐心，意志力很差，往往做事半途而废。又花心，不踏实   

10处女座
一生都在追求完美，但没发现最不完美的却是自己。经不起挫折，很容易一撅不振，龟毛之王，神经质，斤斤计较，洁癖，不合群。比较令人讨厌的星座

11双鱼座
12星座中最脆弱的星座，没主见，任人摆布，意志力超差，容易堕落，没出息，同时此星星犯罪率也是12星座之首！幸亏有天蝎座罩她，不然很难想象如何立足

12双子座
此星座好象就口才好了一点，其实也只是哗众取宠而已，而且说多错多，做事三心两意，喜新厌旧，最无定力，极易受诱惑，毅力超差，受刺激极易失常发疯，完全游戏人生，综合实力和双鱼座是难兄难弟为12星座最差！

P.S:不管怎么样,我还是很喜欢自己的星座的,一个理性冷静的星座,外表柔和,内心

 

 

For example?

 

The first thing is to realize that we've probably been looking in the wrong place.The source is not outside us;it is within.Most of us haven't begun to tap our own potential;we're operating way below capacity.And we'll continue to as long as we are looking for someone to give us the key to the kingdom.We must realize that the kingdom is in us;we already have the key.It's as if we're waiting for permission to start living fully.But the only person who can give us that permission is ourselves.We are accountable only to ourselves for what happens to us in our lives.We must realize that we have a choice:we are responsible for our own good time.

 

It still seems like a strange idea.If it is up to us, if we can push a magic switch and turn on happiness, why doesn't everyone just do it?

 

There is no magic switch.But there is an attitude.To take responsibility for our lives means making a profound change in the way means making a profound change in the way we approach everything.We do everything we can to avoid this change,this respinsibility.We would much rather blame someone or something for making us feel unhappy than take the steps to make us feel better.We even talk about our own feelings as if they were visitors from outer space.We say,"This feeling came over me,"as if we were helpless creatures overwhelmed by mysterious forces,instead of simply saying,"I felt that way,"We speak as if our feelings change from sunny to stormy like the weather, over which we have no control.This meteorological view of our emotions is very useful;it takes us off the hook for the way we feel.We diminish ourselves,just in order to push away the chance of choice.

 

You know,I really find that hard to accept.I mean,feelings are mysterious;they come and go,and most of the time you don't know why.If I am angry or upset about something,I can stop myself from breaking dishes or maybe from breaking into tears,but I can't just stop being upset or miserable.I'm not sure I would even want to.After all,if something has happened to hurt me,then I have a right to feel that hurt.

 

You certainly do.You have a right to your feelings, your painful feeling s just as much as your happier ones.To feel all that you can feel is to be truly human.But too ofter piople cling to unpleasant feelings;they even court them.Without fully realizing what they are doing,they actually bring them about.They do things that make them feel bad and then they say,"I couldn't help myself."What most people mean when they say that is "I didn't help myself." But we can all help ourselves.

 

Can we really?That's an exciting and lovely thought.I would like to hold on to that.How can we do it?

 

In so many ways.First, you have to make a very basic decision:do you want to lift yourself up or put yourslef down "Are you for yourself or against yourself?That may seem like a strange question,but many people are literally their own worst enemy.If your decide you want to help yourslef,you can choose to do the things that make your feel good about yourself instead of the things that make you feel terrible.Why should you do what gives you pain when it is just as easy to give yourself joy"That's an important question to ask yourself.

 

People worry about pollution.But the harm we do to ourselves is a lot more dangerous than the damage we do to the environment.We don't need televison or comic strips to pollute our minds;we do a much more efficient job of it ourselves.Nobody has to be told how to put himself down;when people are looking for faults or shortcomings,they have no trouble finding them or inventing them if they don't really exist.For many people,finding the things that help them feel good about themselves is a real challenge.It's as if they had blinders on that shut ourt all the bright spots.

 

But there are plenty of people who see nothing but their bright spots;they think they are quite satisfactory as they are,and if anything is wrong,it is with somebody else,not them.

 

Of course.But they don't really believe it.THose who are working that hard to convince themselves--and others--how great they are,are also shutting something our.They can't see their faults because they are afraid they've got nothing else.They think their choice is between being perfect and being the worst thing that ever lived.THe trouble is ,it's very hard to give up that way of looking at yourself ,because it is based on refusing to look into yourself .And to change,you really must wrong.You must be able to see the ways you're pulling yourself down and decide that isn't what your want to do .Then you can start doing the things that give your pride and pleasure in living.

 

Such as?...to be continued...

For example?

 

The first thing is to realize that we've probably been looking in the wrong place.The source is not outside us;it is within.Most of us haven't begun to tap our own potential;we're operating way below capacity.And we'll continue to as long as we are looking for someone to give us the key to the kingdom.We must realize that the kingdom is in us;we already have the key.It's as if we're waiting for permission to start living fully.But the only person who can give us that permission is ourselves.We are accountable only to ourselves for what happens to us in our lives.We must realize that we have a choice:we are responsible for our own good time.

 

It still seems like a strange idea.If it is up to us, if we can push a magic switch and turn on happiness, why doesn't everyone just do it?

 

There is no magic switch.But there is an attitude.To take responsibility for our lives means making a profound change in the way means making a profound change in the way we approach everything.We do everything we can to avoid this change,this respinsibility.We would much rather blame someone or something for making us feel unhappy than take the steps to make us feel better.We even talk about our own feelings as if they were visitors from outer space.We say,"This feeling came over me,"as if we were helpless creatures overwhelmed by mysterious forces,instead of simply saying,"I felt that way,"We speak as if our feelings change from sunny to stormy like the weather, over which we have no control.This meteorological view of our emotions is very useful;it takes us off the hook for the way we feel.We diminish ourselves,just in order to push away the chance of choice.

 

You know,I really find that hard to accept.I mean,feelings are mysterious;they come and go,and most of the time you don't know why.If I am angry or upset about something,I can stop myself from breaking dishes or maybe from breaking into tears,but I can't just stop being upset or miserable.I'm not sure I would even want to.After all,if something has happened to hurt me,then I have a right to feel that hurt.

 

You certainly do.You have a right to your feelings, your painful feeling s just as much as your happier ones.To feel all that you can feel is to be truly human.But too ofter piople cling to unpleasant feelings;they even court them.Without fully realizing what they are doing,they actually bring them about.They do things that make them feel bad and then they say,"I couldn't help myself."What most people mean when they say that is "I didn't help myself." But we can all help ourselves.

 

Can we really?That's an exciting and lovely thought.I would like to hold on to that.How can we do it?

 

In so many ways.First, you have to make a very basic decision:do you want to lift yourself up or put yourslef down "Are you for yourself or against yourself?That may seem like a strange question,but many people are literally their own worst enemy.If your decide you want to help yourslef,you can choose to do the things that make your feel good about yourself instead of the things that make you feel terrible.Why should you do what gives you pain when it is just as easy to give yourself joy"That's an important question to ask yourself.

 

People worry about pollution.But the harm we do to ourselves is a lot more dangerous than the damage we do to the environment.We don't need televison or comic strips to pollute our minds;we do a much more efficient job of it ourselves.Nobody has to be told how to put himself down;when people are looking for faults or shortcomings,they have no trouble finding them or inventing them if they don't really exist.For many people,finding the things that help them feel good about themselves is a real challenge.It's as if they had blinders on that shut ourt all the bright spots.

 

But there are plenty of people who see nothing but their bright spots;they think they are quite satisfactory as they are,and if anything is wrong,it is with somebody else,not them.

 

Of course.But they don't really believe it.THose who are working that hard to convince themselves--and others--how great they are,are also shutting something our.They can't see their faults because they are afraid they've got nothing else.They think their choice is between being perfect and being the worst thing that ever lived.THe trouble is ,it's very hard to give up that way of looking at yourself ,because it is based on refusing to look into yourself .And to change,you really must wrong.You must be able to see the ways you're pulling yourself down and decide that isn't what your want to do .Then you can start doing the things that give your pride and pleasure in living.

 

Such as?...to be continued...

Book <How to be Your Own Best Friend>,share with you.

 

 

People say they want to be happy; yet real happiness seems like the impossible dream.Everyone reached for it so desperately,but for many of us it never seems to come any closer.What are we doing wrong?Why are so many people dissatisfied in so many ways?Is it the times we live in? Do we expect too much? Do we want the wrong things?

 

Well,it's not as bad as all that.There are plenty of people who are having a wonderful time with their lives;they are living to the hilt and love every minute of it.But they don't talk about it much;they are busy doing it.They don't usually write articles or go to analysts. Yet it's true;not enough people have that sense of zest in their daily lives.Too many people have just not mastered the art of being happy.

 

You call it an art.Do you think it is something that can be learned, like dancing or making pottery? But I should think you're either happy or you're not.You can't decide to be happy.You can do a lot of things,but I don't see how you can manke happiness.You can go after the things you hope will make you happpy, but you really don't know until after you get them whether they will.

 

In a sense theat's true.But the way you put it is part of the problem that many people have in their pursuit of happiness.They think there is something that will make them happy if they can just get hold of it.They expect happiness to happen to them.They don't see it's something they have to do.People will go to a lot of trouble to learn French or physics or scuba diving.They have the patience to learn to operate a car but they won't be bothered learning how to operate themselves.

 

That's a funny idea.You make it sound as if we should be standing at our own controls and pushing buttons.Shouldn't the are of living be more natural than that?

 

Maybe it should ,but for most of us it's not.We are not born with the secret of how to live,and too many of us never learn it.There is nothing cold-blooded or mechanical about it,but there are many things we have to learn to do.

 

For example?.....to be continued...

都是刺。如何是好。

我老喜欢问别人这个问题的...坏习惯...真无聊~

天气很冷的...下大雨没有去看房子...

不想加衣服,但是我很怕冷的...

发发疯,发发嗲...

我脑子有点问题了又...

爱你一万年!!!!!!!!!

我又有口头禅了~!

 

 

天气一下热，一下又冷，一下就不知道要穿什么衣服了。好象永远都不会了解，有些事情。

 

Just as I have loved you,you also should love one another.(John 13:34)